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Favorite G-Spot Toy: 

The nJoy Pure Wand

The nJoy Pure Wand is my favorite toy for g-spot and prostate play. Its curve, length, and weight make it easy to use on your own body to stimulate areas that would be difficult to reach by hand, and it's also easy to hold on to if using it on a partner's body. I also love that it's made from steel, which makes clean-up simple and safe to use with multiple people (after cleaning.) The metal can also be warmed up or cooled down if you want to add some temperature play to the mix.  

Favorite Safer Sex Product: 

Nitrile Gloves

I'm a huge advocate for using gloves during all kinds of sexy play. Nitrile gloves are the best bet because some folks have a latex allergy. For hand sex, whether you're stimulating a g-spot or prostate, gloves help soften any rough edges from fingernails or calluses. Wearing gloves also helps your lube last longer, as the skin of your hands won't absorb the moisture. Wearing gloves also makes clean-up much easier and helps keep track of fluid safety when playing with multiple partners.  

Favorite Lube: 

Sliquid H2O

Sliquid H2O is my go-to lube for most activities. I love its body-safe ingredients and that it's compatible with barriers and toys.

Favorite Vibrator:

Magic Wand Rechargeable

I love the Magic Wand Rechargeable! The long handle makes it easy to use on your own body or on someone else's in a variety of positions. It works with some Liberator products if you'd like to use it hands-free. And it comes with attachments if you'd like to add g-spot penetration or use it with a penis sleeve. The controls are also easy to figure out by feeling in the dark. The rechargeable version lasts a long time before needing to be plugged in. (If you didn't plan in advance, you can use it while plugged in, too.)

Favorite Book:

Come As You Are

Come As You Are, by Emily Nagoski does an amazing job of digging into the science of sex and intimacy while still using language that's accessible to a wide range of readers.