What is "Bonogamy"? How can we treat consensual non-monogamy like what it is; another normal, human, species-old way of relating? How can we practice non-monogamy in ways that increase our sense of ease, fairness, playfulness without making it become what Kim Tallbear calls, "monogamy on steroids"? How do we support and nurture the kind of empathy, attachment, egalitarianism, non-ownership it takes to practice non-monogamy well and wilder? How do we set aside some of the internalized, restrictive norms of monogamy culture that do not support relating as non-monogamous humans?

Using our matriarchal, sex positive, relationship anarchic relatives (bonobos) as fun inspiration, we'll launch into a juicy presentation and discussion on how you can create more joy, playfulness, ease and pleasure in your non-monogamous relationships and create the love, relationship, community and erotic connection you desire!

Whatever type of non-monogamy you practice, or if you're just learning about non-monogamy/polyamory and want to deepen your knowledge, this event is for you!

Victor Warring, MA is a Somatic (body-centered) Sexuality Educator, Mentor and Coach. He is passionate about supporting people in discovering the truth of their erotic sovereignty and helping to remove any internalized or socially imposed blocks that interfere with the expression of their erotic brilliance. Victor is also a diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) educator and works with people in understanding the intersections where the body, sexuality, inclusion, oppression, and decolonization are interwoven. To learn more, follow Victor on Instagram or on his website.

This class will be held LIVE online via Zoom — Zoom links are sent out 3 days before and then again 1 hour before class. If you sign up within 3 days, please be patient in waiting for the final reminder email, which will be sent out 1 hour before the class.

The class will be recorded and available for a limited time shortly following the class. Registration deadline: 1 hour before class Pacific time. No day-of cancellations.

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