Join Stella Harris, author of The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes, to learn all about navigating threesomes, group sex, and play parties.

Studies show that multi-partner sex is the number one fantasy among American adults. But how do you make it happen? People have a hard enough time negotiating sex or kink with just one person. Adding more people to the mix can complicate things exponentially. But that doesn’t mean it has to be a hassle, a headache, or a recipe for disaster. If your communication and negotiation skills are on point, you can have safe and fun play with as many people as your heart desires.

This class will discuss ways to check in with yourself before group play so you’re confident about your boundaries, how to negotiate with existing partners before adding people to the mix, and tips for facilitating happy and safe group experiences. Stella will cover everything from safety with multiple players, to threesome positions, to party etiquette, to asking for what you want. She’ll also discuss ways to simulate a threesome with two people + sex toys, and options for virtual threesomes.

Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, sex coach, mediator, and author. You may have seen her perform at storytelling events, heard her on a podcast, or read one of her articles or books. She’s been offering sex, kink, and relationship workshops for more than a decade! 

Stella’s wide-ranging expertise has led to being featured on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools, being sent with a press pass to a strip club to report on Stormy Daniels, appearing as an expert wittness in court, and even speaking as an authority on banana slug mating habits.

Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes.  Learn more at www.stellaharris.net or follow her on Instagram or Blue Sky. 

This class will be held LIVE online via Zoom — Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to class. If you sign up within 3 days, please be patient in waiting for the final reminder email, which will be sent out 1 hour prior to the class.

The class will be recorded and available for a limited time shortly following the class. Registration deadline: 1 hour prior to class Pacific time. No day-of cancellations.

We're offering a limited number of free class spots to folks with financial need; please fill out this form if you are interested. Recipients will be chosen based on need and will be contacted at least 3 days prior to class to confirm. 

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